Sunday, September 19, 2010

Parents Should Expose Children to Sign Language

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Parents Can Give Their Children a Competitive Edge through Early Exposure to Sign Language

This article is a guest contribution by Emily Patterson and Kathleen Thomas. Emily and Kathleen are Communications Coordinators for the Zionsville educational child care facility, a member of the AdvancED® accredited family of Primrose Schools (located in 16 states throughout the U.S.) and part of the network of Indiana educational child care preschools delivering progressive, early childhood, Balanced Learning® curriculum.

One of the keys to surviving in a tilted economic system in which opportunities to achieve a decent standard of living will be limited is versatility – and the ability to communicate articulately in a variety of ways with the widest possible audience. This includes bilingual ability as well as the ability to communicate in non-verbal ways for the benefit of the disabled – primarily the deaf.

At the same time, a growing shortage of qualified interpreters fluent in American Sign Language has led to more career opportunities – and if current trends continue, it's likely that skilled ASL interpreters will have little problem securing lucrative employment in a society where such a commodity is destined to be in short supply.

Signing Before They Can Speak

A great deal of research has clearly demonstrated that the early years – ages 2 to five – are the best time to educate children in different modes of communication and language. This goes beyond the spoken word (though it is an optimal time for children to learn a second language); many young children have an aptitude for signing as well.

This is not as odd as you may think. As you know, many indigenous peoples around the world, including American Indian nations, have used sign language for centuries to facilitate communication with other tribes with whom they do not share a language. Some paleontologists and anthropologists theorize that Neanderthals – who apparently lacked the vocal mechanism to produce many spoken words – depended a great deal upon hand gestures to communicate.

In fact, recent research suggests that sign language is innate. An article published in the Boulder Daily Camera in 2003 presented strong evidence that babies as young as six months old communicate with their hands:

"...by 6 to 7 months, babies can remember a sign. At eight months, children can begin to imitate  gestures and sign single words. By 24 months, children can sign compound words and full sentences. They say sign language reduces frustration in young children by giving them a means to express themselves before they know how to talk." (Glarion, 2003)

The author also cites study funded by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development demonstrating that young children who are taught sign language at an early age actually develop better verbal skills as they get older. The ability to sign has also helped parents in communicating with autistic children; one parent reports that "using sign language allowed her to communicate with her [autistic] son and minimized his frustration...[he now] has an advanced vocabulary and excels in math, spelling and music" (Glarion, 2003).

The Best Time To Start

Not only does early childhood education in signing give pre-verbal youngsters a way to communicate, it can also strengthen the parent-child bond – in addition to giving children a solid foundation for learning a skill that will serve them well in the future. The evidence suggests that the best time to start learning ASL is before a child can even walk – and the implications for facilitating the parent-child relationship are amazing.






Saturday, September 11, 2010

Marriage Envy

SINGLE FOLKS:

Have you ever felt any regrets, or wished your life had turned out differently?

Do you ever feel envy towards your friends that seem to have it all; happily married, with beautiful families?



Lately, I am struggling with my singleness.

I have mixed feelings.  A part of me feels a certain peace about being single.  I don't miss the marital stress and I don't miss the fighting.  I also have a fear of intimacy, and major trust issues.

But there is another part of me that just as soon as I get a glimpse of what other people have; I feel regretful and lonely.  Sort of like I have wasted too many years holding out for my 'ideal' mate. And a little resentful; like I've been shorted my “American Dream” that I have carried around with me, for as long as I can recall.



This is not about babies anymore.  I have moved past the baby urges, thankfully!

It's about companionship with someone who would hold my heart.  It's about spending the rest of my days with a man with whom I'd share mutual admiration and respect for.  A man I can feel safe enough to give my heart to, and in return he'd give me his.  A man who will be there to push me in a wheelchair when I am old and frail. Or a man who I will help to feed and dress, when he is no longer able to take care of himself. A man who will hold my hand, make me laugh, and will let me wrap my arms around him, while lying next to him at night.

Over the past couple of years I have re-connected (thanks to Facebook) with people I once knew, when I was young.  Many of them are former boyfriends.  It feels as if they're all married, with lovely wives and beautiful children.

In many of my past relationships, I had hit the 'eject button' at the first sign of trouble.  I was insecure, sometimes a bit immature, and I didn't want to wait around long enough to get hurt.  I was outta there!

And if I was the one who ended the relationship, I start to second-guess my initial decision to dump. I wonder if I should have had more patience and held on, rather than letting go. And what REALLY stings is the fact that many of them (including my ex-fiance) have married the very next girl to come along after me. Ouch.



I know envy is wrong.  I try to appreciate my life as it is, and try to stop myself from having these foolish regrets.  I try to remind myself that it's not about me – it's about God.  HIS plan, not mine.

But I still struggle with it.



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Thursday, September 9, 2010

Dear Child

Girl under leaves.Dear Child:

    I just wanted to remind you today of how beautiful you are... because there is a father of lies who will try to deceive you. He will try to tell you that you are not good enough, not attractive enough, not thin enough, not strong enough, not smart enough, not righteous enough, and that you are aren't important to Me. He will try to tell you that you have broken one too many promises, that you have fallen one too many times, that you have lived one too many lies, and that you've been going in the wrong direction so long that it is pointless to turn back now.
    But guess what? YOU DO NOT BELONG TO HIM. He is not your father.
I AM.



  • You see, you are My creation. My workmanship.
  • You have been borne of My thought, every part of you placed together by My hands.
  • You have My thumbprint upon you.
  • You are a prince/princess, did you know that?
  • You are My child, the child of THE King!
  • I look at you and see a precious, priceless pearl.
  • There is no ocean I would not swim, no mountain I would not climb, no price I would not pay to have you and to be with you and call you my own.
I already have.



  • I have done all that I could, given all that there is.
  • I desire to be with you every moment of every day.
  • How I long for you to talk to Me every day.
  • My love for you never grows cold.
  • My promises are never broken (contrary to what he might
    lead you to believe).
  • My character never changes.
  • And you, my child have been made in My image.
  • I love you dearly, unconditionally and completely.
  • I understand every emotion that you have. I've been there.
  • I count every tear that you cry.
  • I know every hair on your head.
And do you know what? I even know your weaknesses and your failures and your fears. I know those hidden parts of you that you wish would go away. Those dark corners of your world that you stuff deep down, praying that no one will ever see. I have already seen them and they will not change my love for you. Nothing will.

I love you, heart and soul.

I just wanted to remind you today of how beautiful you are, and how precious you are to Me.

With Unmeasurable Love,
Your Heavenly Father

Author Unknown


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Wednesday, September 8, 2010